Why have you given a subject of "H" to your message? Do you expect people to find that helpful?
But in answer to your question, there aren't
usually geographic alternatives for premium-rate 09 numbers, because they are usually used for legitimate revenue-share services. Also, unlike 0870 & 0845, use of these numbers is regulated by
ICSTIS.
If your wife spent too much money because the cost of the calls was not clearly indicated in advance, then you may have cause for a complaint to ICSTIS, but if your wife merely ignored the cost, then it's probably a matter between the two of you!